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Oct 10 2010

DECISIONS – RIGHT/WRONG ??


Psychology tells us that there are actual stages of any grief that we may go through. They are
*  denial
*  anger
*  bargaining
*  depression

*  acceptance

And we go through these SAME stages when we come to terms with anything negative in our lives. We need to acknowledge and accept that we may be at any one of these stages in order for us to move on and make the desired changes in our lives. Just don’t allow them to become excuses to derail your success.

You may be very surprised to know that these are the very same obstacles you may encounter to making any kind of progress, be they – business/personal and they are universal. I see them over and over again and the most shocking thing about it is that….. to the people who are “stuck” these obstacles are invisible and imperceptible.

It’s not wonder then that you can’t find your way through…….  BUT…I do hope this little write-up is going to encourage you to CHANGE, starting today.

I am going to help you realise
*  that it is frustration that will stop you dead in your tracks  

*  that there are fundamental forces that are outside of our control      but which dictate the terms we make decisions with
*  and then I will show you how a “simple decision ” can launch           your success into the stratosphere.

The more you procrastinate…….you create an “obstacle” that prevents you USING THE IDEA FOR YOUR SUCCES.
Now to understand what a real obstacle is. Its like a huge mountain …..the top of which is unsurmountable in your eyes. It also prevents you from seeing what lies beyond.
ALL THE ‘WHAT IFS’  AND ‘IF ONLYS’ ARE LIKE THE MOUNTAIN …WHICH PREVENTS YOU FROM SEEING THE SUCCESS YOU WANT.
 

And the saddest part is that this is only confusing us further making us imagine that we are “doing something” but the reality is that it is pushing us and our desired success into the neither neither land.
The real way to tackle the problem is not to create that mountain in the first place…………and jump right in and take that decision.

Now when you first laid your eyes on my book …MasterMind… you thought….I want to get it for myself…that would be just great.
And yes you are right…..it is great…..it was great for me….but when does it become great for you….. ONLY WHEN YOU TAKE THE DECISION TO BUY…AND THIS TIME I AM CERTAIN YOU WILL.

 

Aug 13 2010

BELIEF


Such a simple word, understood by everybody, not unknown to anybody and yet one of the most profound words of all time. Its depth really not understood by everybody, nay not understood  by almost everybody, except a chosen few. I use the word “chosen” not in the context of somebody else doing the choosing. In fact  - the chosen few made the choice themselves. They chose the power of belief. Now you may well get exasperated and think I am deliberately talking in riddles. In fact I am doing nothing of the sort. To those clued in to mind psychology it makes complete and utter sense.

I choose to believe in the power of belief and that makes me one of the chosen few. The Secret, Law of Attraction, Law of Manifestation and every thing else connected all work on the one grand principle of belief. What you think is what you will be. Its as simple as that. Did I say simple, well actually it is anything but simple. Ask all those connected to this philosophy, the masters who have been practicing this for years and they will tell you that it is very easy to keep tripping yourself up. Belief is connected to your conscious and your sub-conscious mind. You may tell yourself one thing – but if your belief in it is not one hundred percent and there is a slight niggle of disbelief at the back of your mind – presto – like magic you have undone all the good coming your way.

Now ……no matter how hard you try to convince yourself ……that niggle was what won the day and  poof…everything good coming your way vanished in a magical puff of smoke and………………need I say more !!!!!!!